Saturday, December 27, 2014

Pedophile Cults Groom Their Own Children For Sex Trade

It has come to my attention that there are pedophile cults that have children for the purpose of molesting them, using them on child porn sites, and selling them. Here is a news story about one such cult exposed. 

"EXCLUSIVE: The incestuous pedophile clan that advertised their child abuse 'parties' on CraigsList and brainwashed their own three-year-old into believing it was normal By Nick Fagge In Mobile, Alabama, for MailOnline" November 5th 2014, 10:21:32 pm



Friday, December 26, 2014

How Do We Find Victims of Human Trafficking? We Never Give Up Searching For Them.



There will be no Happy New Year for victims of human traffickers of whom over 50% are children. No! They experience only darkness, horrific brutality,  never-ending tears, bleeding bodies, daily beatings, and rape after rape after rape. We cannot stand by and allow these atrocities to continue. Many turn a blind eye because of the enormity and the horror of this crime overwhelms us.

While this is understandable, it is not acceptable. Although no one can do everything, EVERY ONE  can do something. It only takes a moment of your time me to share with someone who may be uninformed, a few seconds to cry out to God, a few hours to host an event in your community or your college campus to raise awareness, a few minutes on your computer to write to your government representatives, a few hours of your time to volunteer in some way with a local organization fighting human trafficking in your city, state, or country.

Please help with the fight. We cannot give up until every trafficker is caught and every victim is found.






Thursday, December 18, 2014

12 Tips When Working With Sex Trafficked Survivors: By Jen Unangs

Crucial and Informative



“I am not a doctor or a counselor but from my own experience as a trauma survivor and through research and hands on mentorship, I believe these 12 simple tips can aid in the healing process of a survivor. Often times, we can re-victimize or trigger an already broken spirit by our words or actions. My hope is that these simple steps can help us, help them.” Jen Unangs


1.     Don’t say “I understand” to a survivor because you probably don’t.

2.   Don’t give unsolicited advice: Instead, review options with the survivor and then support her decisions. Allow her to take control over their own life, even if you believe you would do something differently or if you believe she may regret her decision.

3.   Don’t gasp or grimace when hearing a traumatic story (and you will). Be prepared to hear possible stories of child rape, torture, or even murder.

4.   Don’t over talk a survivor. It’s important to let her speak and get her feelings out without us trying to have an answer for everything. She may for the first time in a long time have her voice back, let her use it.

5.    Don’t tell her not to get a tattoo or piercing or cover them up. This tells the survivor she should change and gives her the message you don’t accept her as she is. Tell them their blue hair and black eyeliner is cool! We love with no conditions.

6.   Don’t put down a survivors pimp. Often times there are a trauma bond that we don't understand. She may love her pimp. She will learn over time she was actually victimized by him. This must be a gentle slow process and can be very painful.

7.    DO NOT ask the survivor about her story. Trust me, she will tell you but only what she feels comfortable telling. Don’t ask question like, “why didn't you run? Just don't ask. It’s important to focus on the future. What are her dreams and aspirations?

8.   Try not to call nicknames. Refrain from words like sweetie or honey that may have been used by johns, pimps, and abusers and could trigger her. Always helps to ask first.

9.   Don’t grab a survivor’s hand or touch her without permission. Also, you don’t have to lay hands on her to pray for her. Trust me, that’s very uncomfortable the first few times. You’ll get to know who likes hugs and touch and who doesn't. It's important to ask.

10.  Don't press the survivor to report her trafficker to the police. Don't insist that she talk to someone about it. Doing nothing is a valid option and needs to be supported.

11.    Don't be afraid to say no! Its important to instill healthy boundaries. Just because she's a survivor doesn't mean you give her everything and say yes to anything she asks for. It’s a hard thing to do but will teach healthy relationships and instill trust.

12.   Don't treat her like a victim. The minute she leaves or is relocated from her pimp she is no longer a victim but a survivor. Try to focus on her future. Let her counselors deal with the past.